5 Tips for Funeral Etiquette

When it comes to mourning someone you love there are no rules, likewise, everybody handles grief differently but there are still dos and don’ts when it comes to funeral etiquette. There are many factors to consider when it comes to attending a funeral, everything from what to wear and what to say, to if you should send flowers and more. Here are some tips when it comes to funeral etiquette to follow.

What to wear 

Gone are the days when everyone wore black from head to toe to funerals, but that doesn’t mean it’s appropriate to wear bright colors either. When it comes to dressing for a funeral take the less is more approach and dress conservatively in darker colors if possible such as gray, navy blue, and black. Pantsuits, dresses, a nice blouse, and pants or simple understated pants and shirts for men are all appropriate choices. Try to steer clear of busy patterns and bright colors if possible. 

What to say

The less is more theory stands true for words to say to grieving loved ones. A simple “I am so sorry for your loss” or “This must be a very difficult time for you, can I do anything to help?” Is enough to express your condolences and support. 

When to arrive

This is one occasion you don’t want to be late for. If you are prone to being late, try to get ready and leave earlier to avoid any pitfalls such as heavy traffic that might set you back. In general, you should plan to arrive approximately 10-20 early before the service. If you are late try not to become a distraction and sit near the back to avoid unnecessary noise. 

What to give

This is a personal choice. Oftentimes families of the loved one who has passed will request funds to be allocated to a cause they supported or were passionate about in lieu of flowers. If not, flowers or a plant that will last beyond the service is usually always appreciated by the family. Other ideas are a simple sympathy card, restaurant gift cards, a prepared meal, an offer to walk their dog, gift baskets, etc. 

Is it ok to bring children?

If the child had a close personal relationship with the person who died it is acceptable and even usually encouraged to bring them to the funeral. IT is a good idea to discuss expectations with the child and what they can expect throughout the day. You can ask the child to contribute by making a card or a special token for the grieving family. However, babies and toddlers who do not understand how to sit still and be quiet should stay at home or with a sitter during the funeral. 

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Sources:
https://www.ftd.com/blog/celebrate/funeral-etiquette